Couple Advice Guide
Get a personalised relationship plan: what’s likely happening, actions for this week, a conversation script, a 4-week checklist and date ideas. Private.
Love & Relationships
Free, private relationship tools for any couple: personalised advice, conversation planning, date and gift ideas, anniversary milestones and messages.
Advice & communication
Practical, inclusive guidance for everyday relationship challenges: a personalised four-week plan, a planner for difficult conversations, a quiz about how you each feel loved and a message helper.
Difficult Conversation Planner
Prepare a difficult talk with your partner: turn feelings and needs into a calm script with an opening, I-statements, replies to reactions and timing tips.
How We Show Love Quiz
A free 20-question quiz for couples about how you each like to feel loved: kind words, time, help, gifts or affection. Pass the phone, compare results.
Love Message & Letter Helper
Write a heartfelt message for any occasion: choose the tone and length, add a memory and something you love about them, and edit a ready-made draft.
Dates & gifts
Ideas and dates to look forward to: hundreds of date ideas filtered by budget and time, gift suggestions that fit your relationship and an anniversary calculator with milestones.
Date Idea Generator
Find date ideas that fit: filter 300+ ideas by budget, time, season, energy, indoor or outdoor, home or out, and kid-friendly, then plan with a checklist.
Gift Idea Finder for Your Partner
Find a gift your partner will love: pick the occasion, budget, relationship stage and interests for ideas to keep, experiences and handmade gifts.
Anniversary & Days-Together Calculator
See exactly how many days, weeks, months and years you’ve been together, your next milestones like 1,000 days, and traditional anniversary themes by year.
Just for fun
Light-hearted games to play together. They make no claims about compatibility; they are simply a reason to laugh and talk.
Name Compatibility Game (Just for Fun)
A light-hearted game that turns two first names into a playful score, a couple name and shared letters. Just for fun: it says nothing about compatibility.
Practical tools for any kind of relationship
These tools are for adults in any kind of relationship, whether you’ve been dating for a few weeks or married for decades. They’re built on what communication research says helps couples feel closer: gentle ways to start hard conversations, taking breaks before arguments boil over, noticing each other’s small bids for attention, and making time for each other on purpose.
Everything runs in your browser. Nothing you choose or type is sent anywhere, and nothing is saved unless you press Save on this device. Each tool has a Quick exit button that leaves the page immediately.
What you’ll find here
- Advice & communication: a personalised Couple Advice Guide with a four-week plan, a planner for difficult conversations, a quiz about how you each like to feel loved, and a helper for writing heartfelt messages.
- Dates & gifts: more than 300 date ideas filtered by budget, time and energy; a gift finder matched to their interests; and an anniversary calculator with milestones and traditional themes.
- Just for fun: a light-hearted name game, clearly labelled as entertainment.
Your safety comes first
If you ever feel afraid of your partner, or they control, threaten, isolate or hurt you, advice about “fixing” the relationship isn’t what you need. Every tool has a Feeling unsafe? button with confidential, free support services for your country, checked against their official websites. Abuse is never your fault, and you don’t have to decide anything today to reach out.
How we write this guidance
Our relationship content is general guidance, not therapy, and it isn’t a substitute for a licensed couples therapist. It’s written to be warm, practical and inclusive, makes no assumptions about gender, and contains no explicit content. Where we draw on research, each page links to its sources.